How do I say this ...
It turns out that the event at Fort Ti is for people registered with units only, so we can't go in costume and my "lovely" jacket won't be seen for a while. I've contacted one unit about joining up for later events, and it seems like most of the events they do (and they do quite a few) are soldiers-only, which is ... not what I'm looking for. So I'm possibly going to write to several reasonably local groups to ask them about their female civilians - how many of them are there, are any of them unattached to any soldiers, do they have their own meetings? I could probably ask on the 18th Century Women list, but I get hives at the thought of posting. :/ That, or mom and I will work on what we can do as sutlers/miniaturists, and then we can basically go wherever we want>